You Can’t Run Away From Yourself…

-Bob Marley

That really sums up my topic!  Where are you running to?  Where are going to go?  Away from that crazy man, that crazy woman!?  LOL!  Please…

It really is interesting to see so many people, sane people, smart people, damned geniuses running from relationships that don’t seem to be working out. What the hell does that mean?  “It just isn’t working out”…

I’m not coming down on you…I’m not being uppity, I have been there before.  I can not judge you for taking the path of least resistance….

But I won’t hold my tounge – the ish is foolish – flat out.

Here’s Why, check it out…

Many believe we catch cold in the winter because it is cold outside.  No freakin way!  We catch cold in winter because winter is doing her job.  Winter clears out the viruses and bacteria that have been gathering in your body and on the planet all year. Because the weather is warm in other seasons, the viruses and psycho viruses get life in our bodies, minds and spirits.  But winter, oh that’s one bad lady!  She comes in and her energy alone brings all the muck and mire directly to the surface and clears it out!

Winter is a time for Clearing.  If you are interested in discovering exactly what this is about, check out the Love Academy’s Cn365 System.  When your relationship has numerous challenges, it is time to clear, not disappear!  These challenges are pulling you to become a more evolved person!  Challenges are actually an opportunity to grow!  Clear the past! Create a new part of yourself…

Here are the facts as I see them…

1.  Your Mate Is Your Mirror – You attract who you are!

OK – Basic Law of The Universe number One is simple.  We attract ONLY who we are.  If it were different, you’d have the project tenements next door to Will and Jada’s new home!  You might find Ludacris has won the position of US President and you might see lions mating with zebras!  How ridiculous.

The Universe has a natural way of flowing those of like mind and like vibration together.  Is it fair?  Of course it’s fair.  Have you ever noticed that everyone’s income in your neck of the woods is about the same?  How about the lunchroom at your job, have you ever seen the executive baord break bread with the janitors?  Need I go on?

• If you ignore the fact that your mate is your mirror then you instantly lower your vibration.  From the seat of denial, you will not only attract others who ignore reality.
• If you ignore the fact that your mate is your mirror, then you are always ready to break up.

2.  Just Where Do You Think You Are Going?  Your Mate Is Perfect For You In Every Way Possible!

Your current mate is perfect for you, yes, that one, because if you can begin to know that you are looking at your own reflection, then you can begin to know what you have to work on to Change Your Life for the good!

If you can see yourself through the behaviors of your lunatic you call your mate, then you can know what you need to change in YOU in order to attract better!

So what does this mean?  Essentially it means becoming better will attract better. 

3.  To Change Your Situation – Change Your Point Of Attraction

To change your ‘terrible’ situation – To create a better result, you must change your point of attraction.  What does this mean?  It means you have to get to the root of the issues… find the mirror of yourself in your partner.  You can do that with us in a one hour phone session, or you can try to do this on your own.

The root concept of Cheating

I DON’T HONOR YOUR WOMANHOOD/MANHOOD

Do you honor your partners manhood or womanhood?

The root concept of Lying

I AM NOT AN AUTHENTIC PERSON I LIVE IN FEAR OF SELF

Are you an authentic person, or do you live in fear of self?

The root concept of Stealing

THE WORLD OWES ME – I AM A VICTIM OF LIFE

Do you steal from others?  Do you feel like a victim in life?

The root concept of Addiction

I AM A CONTROL FREAK – I AM A PESSIMIST – I DO NOT KNOW PEACE

What are your own addictions?  Are you addicted to drama, or to being pessimistic?  Are you at peace in your own life or do you use things to medicate?

This work is simple then, correct?

To attract better we must become better.

By changing YOU from the inside out, you can change the world!  Your world at least – maybe more…get back to me on that!

You have to try this.  You may ‘luck up’ and find peaceful resolution in your relationship challenges!

What if I do the work AFTER I leave my mate?  Can I still change the world and all that jazz?  Go ahead and try to do this ‘self-work’ after leaving a tumultuous relationship, you will find your actions fall flat.

The problem is this…How in the world are you going to know you have succeeded without your perfect mirror to reflect back all you have become…?  Oh I’ll have another mirror by then.  Oh really?  So what you are saying is that you are willing to begin again with someone else only to get to the same old crossroad and have to do the work either way.  Don’t jive me baby…no way.

4. Do You actually think you are better off alone?

If you leave him or her you should not expect to find peace.  The Universe will immediately and expediently replace that person you tried to get away from with another who is similar if not exactly the same; and, you will find that you STILL have to live the new truth and be the new you that you wanted him or her to become instead of YOU!

Don’t you get that?

You cannot run away from yourself…

5.  If You Think He or She Can’t Change It is YOU Who Can’t Change – BET

So you’re leaving because you think your partner cannot change.  OK – LOL!  Sorry to laugh, but this really cute.  So you think your partner can not change and won’t change and is stubborn as an ox (reflection).  You can’t waste your time in that person’s presence anymore…

OK – fair enough.

Need I remind you once again of the basic premise of my talking points?  Mates are Mirrors!

If you do the work, here and now, in this relationship, and this time, in this year, in this situation, in this moment, then you are raising your vibration!  What’s so good about that Kenya, I’m too busy to raise my vibration!  If you raise your vibration then you will begin to attract others and even your partner to join you…  So trust the process, you just may find that the love is elevated, the sex is elevated, the relationship is elevated and you from that elevated place will find not only bliss, but the MAJOR SHIFTS in every part of your life, every person, every situation.

Practical Next Steps

Instead of breaking up with your partner, break up with your old habits!  Break up with your old fears, break up with your old expectations, actions, thoughts, nuances, ideas and beliefs!  Now this is the work of enlightened ones – and that is you, right?  Yes.

Once you begin this work, focusing within on your own state of internal affairs, you will see that the relationships you once thought to the be source of your trouble begin to transition just as you are… If a person near or around you serving as friend or mate is no longer a vibratory match to you, as you grow, the relationship will indubitably transition!  We call this a Universal divorce – it is not a spiritual separation at all – it’s an evolution of the relationship.

Relationships are never “over”.  We are all one being, so how can our eternal relationships to one another ever end?  It’s time to move beyond the fallacy of separateness.  We are indivisible duality, no?

If you need support try our programs, Cn28 is a good one for this kind of processing, or try our personal love coaching services…

Healing Begins Here

Read our books Change Your Man or for the men, Tame Your Woman… for nine steps that will really change him, change her, change you, change life forever!

I welcome your commments

Kenya K Stevens, CEO

Jujumama LLC