Ok Ok, I get it. People are still squeamish about sex! How could I not have known?  I guess I am living in my own Utopian Orgasmic Universe.

The average American is simply embarrassed about the topic and behaves more like a six-year-old than an adult when the subject is mentioned, especially when discussing sex as a Spiritual Modality. We must still cling to the Puritanical belief that sex is a secret thing for “mature adults” joined in holy matrimony.

Those lovers of life who make merriment of Love are rambunctious, sex-crazed, sinners, right? And please do NOT mention those hippies who practice the Art of Love on “Sacred” terms – aspiring to reach God Consciousness through the devilish, animistic act of sex. Shame on them!

I get it now. Why didn’t you guys tell me before? My freedom about the Sacred/Spiritual act of Raw Love makes me the enemy I guess?  It’s sort of like this guy. Pastor Roland Belew got into BIG TROUBLE in Alabama a few weeks ago as fallout occurred surrounding his highway billboards reading Great Sex: God’s Way.

Now someone please tell me, what is wrong with his tag line that the people of Good Hope, Alabama contacted the mayor, the city counsel and even the police force to combat the message? Some complained that their children and teens may see the billboard and ask questions.

Duuurrrhhh, ok?  And we do not want our kids to ask questions about sex? I guess I am a terrible parent because not only do our kids ask questions, but we ANSWER THEM!  Oh no!  And we have had a real, live, Tantra master educate our kids fully on the spiritual nature of the act.  And for shame, we have actually discussed the fact that Daddy and Mommy have sex all of the time and that it is a fun meditative exercise for men and women who share love.

Maybe you guys should stone me in the streets like they are doing Pastor Belew down in Bama.  Check the story here.

This is an interesting state of affairs.  But things get worse…or better… depending on your perspective – for me?  Better.

This week alone I have spoken with several clients about their relationships.  Each of them told me something really profound.  They are guilty about sex!  One man I spoke with told me the story of his mother and how she found him bringing himself to pleasure at a young age.  Apparently the mother ridiculed, fussed, and cursed at the boy telling him that he was a terrible person for fondling himself.  The boy was a teenager!

Now he has to come and pay me to support him as he unravels this lunacy.  I told him that he is fortunate to know where the guilt began.  So many here in this wonderful country feel guilty about every sexual move they make and have no idea where the folly began.  So of course we went back and corrected the issue.  But it had become so bad that the man could not even become erect anymore, it ruined his relationships and caused him to feel less than normal.

Another client gave me the story of her escapades with the other little girls.  All of which wanted to know about the energy of love and so they practiced upon one another in the secret games they played.  Ironically, my daughter – who can tell me anything – came home telling me about the girls at her school (3rd grade) who touched one another in the dark corners of the playground and sleepovers always turned to girl orgies.

I assured both my girl and the client that this is very normal in this culture.  I too was confused up through the age of 18 as to whether or not I was a lesbian based on my girlhood wandering including actual sex with young girls in the games of house we played.

Kids are naturally inquisitive about sex and sexual energy! It doesn’t take a billboard to get their juices flowing.  It simply comes naturally as they develop and explore the various sensations in their own bodies.  These sensations are not bad, they are the essence of life!  Sex is not the enemy, ignorance of the pure, sacred and spiritual essence of the act is more the challenge.

To those in Alabama who have this incessant need to hide sex from children, and to shun the word and act as a secret, adult only, concept that is not to be mentioned until the wedding day, I say this,  children are not stupid!  They are tuned in to the natural currents of love that surround us all.  It is our responsibility (mine at least) to make sure that my own children have a full understanding that sex is fun, natural, beautiful, blissful and so forth.  I teach my daughter to move her hips in dance, to love her vaginal area which I call her ‘pretties’.  I teach my sons to love that early AM erection – I tell them that this is their ‘Ra Power’.  I call their private area their ‘handsomes’ – a measure of their spiritual and physical power!

What’s more is that I tell them the day and time will inevitably come when they will use their sexual energy to heal others and create magic in their lives!  It’s a lovely experience!  I explain how this works and that the enjoyment of sex has connecting elements like diet, exercise, spirituality and so forth.  I explain that other children may not know about all of this, but that they [my kids] do and so they do not have to guess at any part of it.  They can always come to mommy or daddy to find out ANYTHING they need to know.  We can show them videos, books and even certain techniques.

My son once asked me about the G-Spot.  You see he has a Mac and I am sure he has done a keyword search for sex.  No Big Deal – normal, typical, and expected.  I told him all about the G-Spot and how if manipulated properly it is the woman’s Ambrosia, a gift from the heavens, that will emerge.  He seemed curious to know more and so I feed him information, images and so forth until his thirst was satisfied.  Never will I have my kids out there learning a bunch of malarkey from the others, and my children will always have a positive view of sex, because sex is how they go to the planet!

Finally, sexual force is a thing of God or Source [Universal Love].  I tell my kids that their bodies belong to them as a gift from the heavens.  If they want to touch their own bodies I am all for it!  I warn my sons that depletion of the sexual Ra force is something daddy will talk to them about and is important to know.  And I warn them that usually this is not done in public places, but mostly because this society is anal about an age old natural bodily function that many fear, reject and hide from.

I believe that humans are evolving and this will not be a challenge  much longer.  I am enjoying the challenge of exploring possible solutions for myself and my clients and my family.  What solutions have you come up with in terms of educating your children about sex?  Please share and let us know how you deal with this issue, hopefully in such a way as not to turn out another lost generation handling sex like it is a nuclear bomb that can kill you, harm you, make you crazy, sick, ugly, used and Ungodly.

Educating a child about the power and bliss of sexual energy and warning a kid about the dangers and pitfalls of sex are two different things, but either way, the children need to have a more clear understanding.

Shhheeeeesh!

Written By:  Kenya K Stevens

JujuMama LLC