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Men – if you are having any one of the symptoms below – CALL JUJUMAMA!  We can work it out so that you can have the respect you so desire!

10 clues that men need a little loving support in the relationship department:

man-no-sex11.  You have often found yourself calling women ‘golddiggers’ and wish to have an independent woman who will not need you to secure her or take care of her financial needs.

2.  You have often desired your mate to be the sexual aggressor.  Your libido is not so steady and you need her to show you that she wants you a little bit more.

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Here are 10 ways a woman can tell if she should call JujuMama…

1.  Each time a relationship deepens, the same bad habits surface in you and your partner.  You find yourself living a life of repeating patterns.

2.  You find you are generally angry at men.  You disrespect men with words, push men away, treat men badly, try to become a player – you feel men have nothing to offer.  You are generally a dominant woman due to past pain and anger.

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So last night I was in the need for a little Tantric Bliss…

I work around the clock as CEO, CFO, Marketing Director, Blogger, Mother, Wet Nurse, Wife, Energy Healer, Tantrica,  Manager of 5 Virtual Assistants, Book Distributor, Twitter Queen, Lover, Event Coordinator, Motivational Speaker, Web Developer, Friend, Counselor, PR Director, Publicist, Brand Manager, Laundry Maid, and of course Goddess/DIVA.

So I was like REALLY in need last night. Do ya’ll feel me? LOL!

I desire to be more than loved, I desire to be worshiped!

Now, before you call me blasphemous, hear me out.  Human beings – all of us, I dare say – need to be worshiped from time to time.

This entails another human being (or two – whatever ;~) adoring and adorning your body, mind and soul, sending healing vibrations into your soul, speaking strings of kind words into your heart, acknowledging you, sensually, and in every way!  Often we think we need to have a main lover or serious partner to do this.  But that is old school, old paradigm thought!

LOVE HEALS!  How often do you get it in?  LOL!  Here is how it works…

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SO last night I was unbraiding my husband’s hair and he was just sitting there on the computer with the earphones listening to the latest in movie previews.  I am not interested AT ALL in movies because they freak me out.  I am a trance DIVA so I feel like I am IN the movie or that the movie is happening to ME!  So I steer clear of movies.  (I recall watching the matrix and then thinking that the special agents were going to come and get me!  I know, crazy.  But whatever).

Now mind you, my husband and I are like OOOBER busy, so I thought that by taking his hair out, we could spend some time talking to one another and to the kids.  SO I dreamed up this huge fairy tale in my mind about me taking his braids out as he reads books to the kids who hardly ever see us with our travel and work schedules.

NOT!

As the reality unfolded I realized that my husband did not have concept or clue about my wishes and desires.  And so when I asked him to read the kids a story as I did his hair, he said, flat out, and blatantly NO.  WHAT?  NO?  Well why the hell not? I was about to have a fit when I recalled what was happening – again – and decided to become awake in the moment!

Now I was really mad – HELL YES!  But did I have to follow the anger emotion and let it wreck havoc in my relationship?  HELL NO. Did I have to disrespect him in front of the children and question him, or badger him until he complied?   Well, not this time….

Here are the three steps to resolving the incessant need to have it YOOUUUURRRR WWAAAYYYYY!

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sexywomanmailingletterDear Wonderful Men,

I am writing on behalf of all women (I hope).  This letter is especially oriented for men in relationships with women, long term relationships, marriages and short term relationships for that matter!  I want to talk about your desire to have more.  We all want more.  More love, more freedom, more fun!  We honor you.  We want that too.  Everyone wants to feel free and happy, right?

Let me explain a few things to you that will surely get that DIVA you are working with on the right page about the relationship.  She needs your love and I know you need her respect and both of you can have BOTH!  Easy as pie!

The trick is simple. In this letter, I offer four ways for you to take your relationship to the next level.

I guess I’m talking to men today because of all the emails I get from men who say:

“Kenya K, I want my wife or lover to open up in the ways you have to your husband  – but she won’t let me do anything like that.  She would kill me if she knew I were writing you!”

I guess these men are talking about the open relationship piece.  But there are a few things that must be in tact in a primary relationship before women will even consider doing anything outside the norm.  Women are VERY conservative.

This is from the heart…

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I LOVE this new Jamie Foxx song!  How about you?  My own interpretation of the meaning of the song might interest you.  I think the song is profound.  He is saying BLAME it on the alcohol – blame your authentic feelings, your desire to choose BLISS on a substance.  The real deal is that we do not actually need the substance to express feminine desire. (Not that there is anything innately wrong with partaking in spirits.  There is metaphysical purpose in that too!  LOL!)

Basically Jamie has noted a key element in our society at this time.  Women are fronting on the sex tip!  Not all women, but many women carry real guilt about their sexual desires.  Thus, they ‘get loose’ when they drink alcohol, the alcohol makes us free of the incessant need to judge ourselves about our natural, yet extremely suppressed, sexual energy.

Lets take a look at the lyrics…

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steve-harvey-take-off-your-shirt-3I have been asked by over 50 women to do this ~ Get into the bed with Steve Harvey.  So I did it!  I have had a wonderful time ~ thank you Stevie Baby!  Steve is quite a lover!  I am excited to report that after reading his book, I have decided to go through it chapter by chapter here on the blog.

I LOVE his latest piece on relationships - Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man. I feel it is perfect for women who need to understand what a man quintessentially IS.  But of course, like any lover, Steve and I do not agree on everything.  What is most important, however, is that we agree on the basics.

Let us begin with Chapters 1&2.

“A man’s love falls only into three categories.  I call them ‘The Three P’s of Love – Profess, Provide, and Protect.’  A man many not go shopping with you to buy the new dress for your office party, but a real man will escort you to the party and hold your hand, and proudly introduce you all around the party as his lady (Profess); he may not cuddle you and sit by the bed holding your hand while you’re sick, but a real man who loves you will make sure the prescription is filled, heat up a can of soup, and make sure everybody is in position until you are better (provide); and he many not willingly change diapers, wash the dishes, or rub your feet after a hot bath, but a real man who loves you sure will walk through a mountain and on water before he’d let someone bring any hurt or harm to you (Protect).  This you can believe”

~Steve Harvey

Beautifully written Stevie Baby. So, in summary, chapters one and two are about the differences between men and women.  The ways that men love and the ways that women love are just completely different.  We are a different species.  Men are fire and air, women are water and earth. This, we must fully understand as we look into our relationships to find purpose.  Steve and I agree here.

It is a joyful union of souls!

Read my review of Chapters One and Two!

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