So last night I was in the need for a little Tantric Bliss…

I work around the clock as CEO, CFO, Marketing Director, Blogger, Mother, Wet Nurse, Wife, Energy Healer, Tantrica,  Manager of 5 Virtual Assistants, Book Distributor, Twitter Queen, Lover, Event Coordinator, Motivational Speaker, Web Developer, Friend, Counselor, PR Director, Publicist, Brand Manager, Laundry Maid, and of course Goddess/DIVA.

So I was like REALLY in need last night. Do ya’ll feel me? LOL!

I desire to be more than loved, I desire to be worshiped!

Now, before you call me blasphemous, hear me out.  Human beings – all of us, I dare say – need to be worshiped from time to time.

This entails another human being (or two – whatever ;~) adoring and adorning your body, mind and soul, sending healing vibrations into your soul, speaking strings of kind words into your heart, acknowledging you, sensually, and in every way!  Often we think we need to have a main lover or serious partner to do this.  But that is old school, old paradigm thought!

LOVE HEALS!  How often do you get it in?  LOL!  Here is how it works…

Worship is the basis of Tantra! When my husband and I first began the practice, we were instructed to do this exercise:

1. Each partner make a list of favorite things, music, color, food, so forth plus HOW you desire to be worshiped.
2. Choose two days per week to worship.  One partner is worshiped on one day, the other partner on the next.
3. Prepare for the session by obtaining your partners favorite things and setting the ambiance.
4. Worship your partner for four hours on his or her day!  Speak the words and do the actions they need to heal.

YUMMY!  When we started to make time for this type of practice a few years back, our intimacy soared.  The session is not simply about sex, it’s all about sensual energy!   Worship means giving the other partner what they desire most and solely; giving what they actually need.  We were instructed to ask one another if it is OK to do this, or that, right there in the session!  We were instructed to be present and feel what the person may desire!  We were instructed to speak positive words about the other.  It is advised that the man go first and worship his Queen as this will set the stage of his giving energy and allow her to receive.  This is really cool, especially for married couples.  Takes love to another level!

So last night I desired this type of worship session, needing a refuel.  Hubby and I have not made time to do this with one another lately ~ although we always make time for sex – LOL!  I did not want to ask him to do one more thing, we have SOOOO much to do daily.  I wanted Man Hands on my body and Man Energy telling me all about my beauty and feeding my highest light!  YUM!

So, I told my husband what I desired.  The first thing he asked me is if I wanted him to do the work.  I thought about this and I let my authentic self answer, I am not afraid to be real anymore.  That took work!  “Honey, I don’t want you to do it, in fact, I want to give this to you,  but I cannot right now.  I need to be replenished and so do you, is there someone who can do this for you tonight?”  He, of course, said yes and quickly texted a friend of his.

You see, human beings are not islands.  And COUPLES are not islands. We need others to help us along our path.  That is the New Paradigm, right?  We are all connected and need Universal Love to fuel us to our highest heights!  I envisioned receiving the energy of a man who may work, but comes home alone, no kids to raise, no companies to run, a guy who has some spare energy just sitting around in his soul.  And I am so glad I was authentic enough to share this with my husband.  I can do that now that I am FREE!

So hubby left merrily with a kiss and I invited a friend, a Reiki Master and energy healer that we both feel comfortable with.  My husband actually called a friend of his who might be willing to do this for me, but to no avail.  I had expressed that I wanted two men to enact that powerful, spiritual force of healing light upon me, but I settled for one.  LOL! My husband was being helpful.

Anyway,  the friend arrived at about 10:30 PM – Fabulous!  The children and dogs were sleeping.  I lit a candle, and then some sage to purify the space and my energy as well as his.  He had his bag of essential oils, Jasmine, he said, would do the trick!  I ran a bath and he promptly began to work on me.  He asked if he could bathe the Goddess.  YES!

Fully clothed, he bathed my Eve Clad body in the light of night candles and Pandora Bliss.  I LOVE www.pandora.com !  I go there to simply put in one of my favorite meditation songs and they play all types of great and similar songs all night long!

With the tunes of Indian chants swirling in my mind, I opened to closing my mouth and receiving his hands.  It was the first warm night in Atlanta and so my windows were wide open.  I saw him draw the blinds and thought for a moment to tell him to leave them open when I recalled the act of receiving is about submission.  I would give him no instruction tonight.

Earlier in my text I told him clearly what I desired and the rest would be up to him.  I told him that sex would be way too much energy output, I told him that the evening had to be all about me, and my need for touch healing.  He agreed to that one caveat and we proceeded in love.

Fully clothed, he ran his luscious hands touching every aspect of my soul level energy making me clean with his thoughts of good intention.  He spoke to me of my purpose and he wiped old energy away from my auric field.  I felt the lights glowing, my body quaked with JOY as he shed the old and opened me to what is new, powerful and NOW.

I am lucky to have energy healers as close friends, but all men have this power in their hearts and hands.

After two full hours of being rubbed, touched, moved and completely settled, I moaned and erupted with wave after wave of bliss.  In a prior me, I would have been thinking, “well, what is he going to GET, besides blue balls?”  I used to feel like I was a tease to enjoy Man Hands without giving him something in return.  That is before I knew that for a man, having a woman in this way is all he desires.  He desires to enact his light and electricity upon us and to have us respond with bliss, to appreciate him, is acknowledgment and pleasure enough!

I loved each moment and visualized – or was transported to new places.  Once I was on a barge going down a river in India with four men rowing the vessel.  In the middle of the barge was me as Yin and a healing man as Yang and were were there in the center wrapped in JOY!  I realized the the four men rowing symbolized the four directions and in the center is harmony!  WOW!

Another time Pandora gave me a woman singing this awesome chant, bold, robust and taking me eagerly with her to the center of my being – I saw all that is to come and all that has ever been.  He held the space, grounding me as I soared!  So many visions, I cannot even recall them all.  Seems our session unfolded in phases – visual chips of memories I needed to see releasing me from who I think I am and making me wholly present in that which I truly am – Eternal – Moist – Feminine – Divine – Sacred…

I cannot tell you how rejuvenated I felt once the session wound down four hours later.  The time was 2:00 AM and we found our way back to the planet to hug goodbye.  I wanted his Adam Clad body to stay.  His body felt like heaven to mine.  The Platonic aspect of our friendship was not hampered.  It was by choice that we ended the session to return to the idea of friendship.

He was so pleased with himself and I made that possible by telling him all about the journeys he had conjured.  It is important for us to do that for one another.  For many men, all they truly need to feel acknowledged is our sweet voice singing praises of their power.  I told this man exactly what he did for me last night; he can now experience his power more fully.

Acknowledgment is more important than FOOD to human beings on Planet Earth!

So I say all of this to say that at any point and when you are ready, especially if you are single, you can make any platonic relationship into a healing den of bliss.  And why not?  We are all in need of love.  Do you know that it is a scientific fact that love heals cancer, diabetes, heart disease and so much more!  YES!  Check this article!

There will come a day when the need for Western Medicine – allopathic medicine – will not be so wide-spread.  It will happen on the day when we realize that we are all healers and that touch is not to be shunned, but is the essence of our internal medicine flame.  Humanity healed, embraced, and love power fully acknowledged at last!

Happy Friday!

Written By:  Kenya K AKA JujuMama  ~~~~

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