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So yesterday I had a gut wrenching experience on Twitter.  This boy was talking to me.  He seemed drunk or something, maybe high.

Either way, this boy, in his drunken stupor, twitted me a deeply eye-opening message.  After addressing him as King, which is the way I address most men I come into contact with, he wrote me back addressing me as Queen FREAK!

QUEEN FREAK!  WTF?

This pounded me to the floor of my soul.  I felt the rip inside of me and immediately I was back in high school where FREAK was the worst word in the world.  I hated THAT word!  I hated it with a passion.  I probably hated it most when I was the subject of the conversation in which it was used which seemed unavoidable in my school.  Every girl was at one point or another considered a FREAK.  This Twitter boy was offering me the opportunity to grow past my teenage self!  A real blissing in disguise…

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Here is the note I got today from a young lady concerned about virginity…

Kenya

I’ve always been taught to “wait” for the “right” person to have sex with and I do believe in monogamy. Lately I’ve been reading your blog and I know you talk about attraction and opportunity. I’m 19 years old and have never had sex. The opportunity of sex has always been there, but there was no one I ever felt it would be “right” with. I thought I would be in a relationship with a man, fall in love, etc. then have sex with him. But for the first time I’ve met a man whom I have no desire to be in a relationship with but I am extremely attracted to him mentally, physically and emotionally. I know that we attract what we are but I can’t seem to figure this one out. I admit that I am nervous about being alone with him because there is no doubt that I would give myself to him. I know I would not regret it because I don’t regret any decisions that I make, instead I simply learn from them. I don’t agree with everything you say but I am open to all that you say. With that being said I would appreciate some insight on this.

Thank you,

Anonymous

I have replied below… Thanks!

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It’s so hard when I have to, and so easy when I want to.  ~Annie Gottlier

This is the secret key to love…

Ladies, I have heard some women complaining that their man is not willing to give up enough of the good stuff.  I even speak with women in their 20′s and 30′s stating that their boyfriends are unable to perform at various moments in time.

OK?

Well please note – there is an easy cure for this.  I spoke about it in detail in my article on Viagra. However, here is the short version.  If you want your man to be hard, you have to be soft.

It is really just that simple.  You cannot run about all day bossing him around, complaining, being tough, independent, irritated and even hurtful with your words or actions and then expect for him to make love with you, or WANT to make love with you.  Sure, you can expect him to do so, but if he is holding on to inner rage about your arrogant and disrespectful behavior, he will not be able to perform.  Over time this looks like erectile dysfunction, but guess what?  He only has it with you!  LOL! So it ain’t real!

Girl, I have been there and done that in my years of monogamy (I’ve been married since I was HOT and 21!!!).

It is not fun, and it is hard to accept that the cause of his “issue” may be some behavior on your part.  But once you take ownership for your entire life, including the way that others treat you, you will become empowered to change anything about any relationship with a mild shift in your own behaviors!  Sound too hard?  Well try living with an erectile dysfunctional man for a few more years and then come back to this post and try following this advise.

I think you will then kiss me!

Try this trick to get some good stuff this weekend:

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