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Hay kids!  Yesterday I wrote a post and explained exactly what happens to “prize winning” pussy.  Today I found this real life story that proves my point.  The only difference is that this one wasn’t slaughtered after the fair!  This man (her very own Charlotte) actually managed to save her… and restore her Yoni back to her… but most women (stuck in the pussy as a prize reality) would say she is a fool.  What do you think?

INDECENT PROPOSAL

[Re-post from www.mensfitness.com by Mimi Valdes]
Kevin Johnson* always knew he’d marry a “good girl.” He wasn’t looking for a virgin, but he wanted someone who’d only been with a couple of guys. “A whole bunch of dudes who could say they’d had my wife? That wasn’t going to happen,” he says.

In the meantime, the 30-year-old music executive from Atlanta did his thing with countless women. “They say the ratio of girls to men down here is like 9-to-1, and I took full advantage. Sometimes more than one girl at a time,” he says, laughing. Always believing he would stop once he met the right girl, he never considered he might miss this carefree lifestyle. “I thought being a horny dog would get it out of my system, making it easier to be faithful once I got married.”

He met his wife, Lisa,* in church, of all places, after his sister dragged him there one Sunday. “She was sick of hearing all my crazy stories and wanted me to settle down and have some kids so she could be an auntie,” says Kevin. He says it was love at first sight, and within six months he and Lisa were engaged. They married six months later.

Lisa, then a 23-year-old receptionist, had had only one prior sexual partner—just as Kevin had envisioned. “I loved that she was so beautiful and wholesome. She was everything I dreamed of,” he says. Except her inexperience showed—she wasn’t exactly an expert in the bedroom. Kevin tried teaching her, but it was difficult and awkward, and it just made her uncomfortable. “She couldn’t let go,” he says. “Deprogramming a good girl was harder than I thought.”

Determined not to give up, he wondered if she’d be down to allow other women in their bed to show her. “Man, I know it sounds crazy, but she was so worried I was going to leave her—even saying things like she wouldn’t be surprised if I cheated on her, given my player background,” says Kevin. “It was almost like she was giving me permission since she didn’t think she could please me.”

He brought up the idea carefully, stressing that he didn’t want to exclude her from his sex life and that he would never leave her. By this time, he also realized that giving up the occasional ménage à trois was easier said than done. “She listened, was quiet for what seemed like a long time, but then she said yes,” says Kevin.

“I was a little hurt, but he was so sincere; I felt a responsibility to my husband to at least try,” says Lisa, who admits her willingness surprised her. “The rules were clearly drawn. The girls knew I was the queen, the one he had chosen, so they couldn’t compete with me on that. And the way my husband controlled the situation, I felt very empowered, like I was directing the whole thing.” She says she felt comfortable learning from the different women and actually enjoyed watching them please her husband. “Seeing firsthand how other women experience their sexuality has freed me from my hang-ups,” says Lisa.

Now that he’s created a freak, does Kevin worry she might try out her new moves with someone else? “I’m really hoping she doesn’t, but what can I do if she wants to? She’s handled my issues like a trooper,” he says. “I’m gonna have to do the same.”

(Thoughts?)

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7 thoughts on “More Prize Winning Pussy…

  1. I have never thought of my sexuality/vagina as a prize, but a gift from God. It belongs to me, just like my feet, hands, eyes, etc. If I can choose what to look at, touch, to tread on, then I can control the ifs and whens of my vagina as well. My mother was raised in the church but never went while I was growing up. She told me I could do whatever I wanted when I turned eighteen. She told me to be smart about men, but never made any hard and fast rules, just gave examples from her own life and the lives of people she knew.

    People ask me a lot about being a virgin. Do I expect to find a man who's a virgin? What am I saving it for? It's not a prize! What if you wait for marriage & he's no good, etc. Men assume because I haven't had sex, I am probably asexual, frigid, or cold. Like this gentlemen, they have an idea of what a "good girl" is, never taking their own predilections/past behaviors into account. Many women who aren't sexually experienced do have hang ups about sex it's hard to get rid of. But I don't have hang ups about sex; I just think that things have a proper flow, an order…

    • Sex can be beautiful, loving, freaky, in or outside the box, in whatever positions you want to find yourself in, and be healthy and fun and the right thing…I want to be married to one person with whom I will explore all the random things I may want to do. My vagina may not be a prize, but it's like the military: it's not for everybody, everybody doesn't deserve to be in it, and if you can't get through basic training, you can't really call yourself part of the family.The military strives to get a man to stop thinking I and start thinking we; people's lives may depend on it. You are now part of, and must function as, a unit. You have your role, and the next person has theirs. It's synergy–all things working together for good. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

      • We all have our selection processes for who we choose to give our time, money, and/or vaginas to. Mine may be more stringent than others, it may be less. But if I didn't hold to it, I wouldn't be able to be happy with what I choose…and I'd be the only person to blame for that.

  2. I always thought blogging was just graffiti with punctuation….not anymore :-) Congratz my queen….blogging is just another example of ur shining light & beauty….what a wonderful picture you paint with your words…keep it up…i heart you….xoxo
    G-man “WE SPEAK YOUR NAME”

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