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  1. I have a question.

    I'm staying and playing even though my man insists on being just ridiculous at times.
    I go into trance all the time to improve the mood but he still won't pick up the phone to call me and I live with him! I went out of town for 9 days for a family emergency and this guy hasn't called me one time because he said I haven't given him a chance to miss me. I am ready to just pack my stuff and go when I get back to the apartment I share with him. What is wrong with him? I know, what is wrong with me but whatever. I'm staying and I want him to call me so I call him. I want him to stop sounding like a rain cloud so I perk up when I call him. I know you are in college level progressive relating but help a 4th grader out here. What the heck is with men and telephones? How come he won't call me anymore!

  2. Kenya,

    I just want to say that you are doing well in your chosen profession! You lay down very clearly and with wonderful style what needs to happen in a relationship and I applaud you for that but I am sure it is not well received at times. Sometimes you may be a little over the top but it is obviously genuine and done with enthusiasm that comes along with being Kenya. I just want to say keep up the good work that I am sure is apprecieated in this community we are all creating!

  3. LadyJ, Personally, I think people in general use the telephone as a method of control. I've seen it happen in my own life. He won't call me, but he'll call everyone else in his phone:) Lived it. For me, it was that I was too controlling for him. He never said so, but his actions spoke to me clearly that I was. I have been fighting that battle in me for as long as I can remember. If someone would just please tell me how to kill that controlling bitch factor in me once & for all, I'd do it this very second because I hate "her". I just hate the way I do that.

    My mother told me a long time ago that I have always been bossy, was born that way. No one taught it to me. I don't know about that, I just know I am that way.

    So to answer your question about why he won't call you, maybe you make him 'feel' controlled. And it seems to be all in the feelings we send out doesn't it? Isn't that what the Law of Attraction teaches us….feelings & intentions? I sometimes feel as though I have to play a game and I don't like that one bit! I want to be able to be open and completely honest about what I feel or think and be able to speak accordingly. That's when I realize, it's not about me. It's about them. It's about how they receive what we send it. It's not always the message we're sending, but the one they are receiving because of their own life. The Four Agreements by Don Mugel Ruiz has helped me greatly in this area. maybe it will help you, too.

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