Modern Americans have our energy hooked up to news in an interesting way. We direct our energy as to create more and more of the news we don’t like. We don’t allow the news to push us further, develop solutions or solve problems. Do allow me to explain:
Something happens. It’s an unsavory thing, or so we are led to believe. We hook into shaming and blaming the “culprit”. We toss our energy into complaining about what this Villain has done, it’s terrible, it’s so foolish, it’s nasty, it’s irresponsible… thereby creating more of it! What we focus on expands.
Here is a Progressive Way to look at news like the latest incident, Too $hort and his candid sex advise for young boys. Decide what you feel about this:
In terms of educating our youth not just on the clinical process of sex, but how to be good partners, caring lovers, and sensually activated adults, we certainly could use more effort and creativity. There is a huge void not being filled, except by porn, in regards to our children learning “How To” engage sensual interaction. Google notes ages 8-18 are the highest rated group in terms of porn consumption online!
Enter Too Short telling boys to pin girls to the wall and find their clitoris, and POW! Everyone directs their energy to crucifying him instead of finding/feeling the wake up call. Who taught us to focus on the negative and discard the learning, in life? Keep in mind everything that happens, happens for a reason, a divine purpose. To be specific, we are always being called to the moral of our stories, even when it hurts to realize it.
The moral to this story is simple. Back to the void. If our children want to know about how to have sex, where can they turn. Can you imagine your child asking you, Mom, Dad, how can I bring a woman to orgasm? Or your daughter saying – mother, how can I have a clitoral orgasm, and are there more orgasms to be explored? I’ve heard about the G-spot orgasm and female ejaculation…
No? You can’t imagine that? Well, nor can most of them, due to the current cultural climate. Therein creates the void – Billions of children who want to know how to be lovers, but do not have a direct route to finding out from any responsible adult, by and large.
So the moment the seething, gaping, void becomes filled with what we consider to be ‘the wrong thing’ we flip out on the “bad guy”, instead of peering into life in a divine way, assessing the news with our higher minds, and taking notice of the moral to this story.
We do this with all news. Tiger Woods, crucify him! Forget the moral to the story ie. American marriages are not working on a massive scale; there is cheating on a massive scale. Or Newt Gingridge, kill him! Forget the fact many partners are lying to one another – 66% of American marriages are riddled with adulterous affairs. It goes on and on. We’re addicted to finding the negative instead of productively using news to spur solutions.
We plug our energy into the wrong hemisphere of a story. We give credence to the fear mongers and make the machine stronger! Why? Is it we’re unaware problems don’t solve themselves, and reality is showing us what needs to be shifted? Have we forgotten the purpose of life? Have we forgotten all things serve to further?
I have not. Progressive Love has not. These four principles:
- No Shame No Blame
- No Victims No Villains
- No Cop Outs No Drop Outs
- The prupose is Growth, the benefit is love
These are what we must begin to use as filters as we read and watch the news! No I will not shame and blame Too Short. He is just a messenger. He is simply filling a void we refuse to fill on a national level pertaining to our children and their tireless longing to be taught to be adults, sensually and otherwise.
I did this video about the messenger Tiger Woods like three years ago! Don’t laugh at my hair… But the same applies here:
Instead of tying my energy up in bad mouthing Too Short, I’d soul search by asking “What Can I do to fill that void?” How can I plug my energy into ways to begin giving young adults what they need so Phantoms don’t have more access than I? Too Short was actually, energetically, sacrificing himself, his reputation, unbeknownst to him, to bring attention to the needs of our youth. Our clinical sex ed is surely failing them. Too Short is a hero right now!
Thanks Too Short, I applaud you, not for being clueless as to how to please a woman, not for advising young boys to follow your ridiculous sex plan, but for bringing attention to the void modern education has left between young adults and proper sex training. With your obtuse vision you ‘made a mistake’ that is priceless to eyes that can SEE. Indeed we parents have created and allowed to stand a void. Indeed you brought or attention there.
Because of you Too Short, we might choose to become adult enough to find the moral to the story, direct our energy properly, and bring light to the world of our children. I think we must.
Again thank you for causing the mindful to glance your way and make new choices on how to fill the void. Personally, I’ve already written the new sex curriculum for young girls. Who will write the one for young boys?
Love and Delight,
Kenya K Stevens
Love and Delight
Kenya K Stevens