Alright, so this is important. There are many men walking the planet today who believe their fathers were “bad guys” because they had many lovers beyond their wives. Often these men feel their father’s behavior “destroyed” the family or hurt the mother… Well, I’m here to tell you these are not “bad” men in the least. Continue reading
After 12 years of being together you would think things slow down. Desires decrease, sex becomes a chore and lovemaking is shuffled amongst laundry, child care and bills. There is good news now that my husband of 12 years and I have found our fountain of youth. Finally after months Continue reading
In the last few weeks I have been on Facebook and the common thread has been whether or not we use the Progressive Love tenets to cover up our lack of responsibility in relationships. In other words, if we all take personal responsibility for our happiness – is this an Continue reading
Yesterday in JujuMama’s Blue Butterfly Room, a forum where women converse around topics that intersts us, we discussed the shame and guilt many women report with having more than one male lover in the same space of time. We are a culture obsessed with cartoon like female virginity, monogamy fairy tales, and Continue reading
