MEN: FIGHT LIKE HELL TO HELP THESE WOMEN FEEL PROTECTED, SECURE, AND LOVED OR YOU CAN BASICALLY KISS YOUR ASS AND YOUR COMMUNITY AND YOUR CHILDREN’S FUTURE AND THE PLANET GOODBYE. DO THIS WITH ALL WOMEN NOT JUST YOUR WIFE OR GIRLFRIEND OR DAUGHTER. GIVE IT EVERYTHING YOU GOT HOMIE. PSA announcement… Now on to the article.
Recently Jhoslyn wrote an article about men needing healing and love from women. I agree with her stance, however, It takes a sexually, socially, and intellectually free woman to heal a man. This woman has to be able to move without any doubt, shame, or concern for her or her children’s well being in order to tap into her feminine power… She’s not a man. She can’t maintain male duties and responsibilities and think she’ll have enough ”left over” to nurture a man.
The masculine nature is used to prevail in stressful situations. Masculine bodies and ways of being are built for stress. Masculine energy feels less, has little remorse (by design), and thrives on risk. Where men shine and what we were built for is handeling high stress with ease; but, the feminine is different.
In order for a woman to tap her powers she must be somewhat relaxed and carefree, relaxation must come from outside – meaning the environment must be conducive to her nesting needs – as opposed to her forcing herself to relax. Now, she can tap into her goddess~ness and enter that relaxed state wherever and whenever she needs too, but that takes some mastery, so until then we need to work together to help create the right environment. Creating this kind of environment is physically up to men.
Another very important element here is the idea that in order to heal a man, women need to be freely allowing men to make love with her…
Let’s just call this like it is. You will never have community and unity when half the men aren’t getting any pussy. It will never happen. ”Leaders” in our communities want to try to address issues with family, crime, men stepping up and taking responsibility for their families and all the women and children they come in contact with, but they fail to address the number one issue men face which is the glaring, inescapable fact that they are not men as indicated by the fact that 95% of the women they come in contact with wouldn’t give them the pussy if GOD guaranteed them everlasting life in heaven. Do you get that?
You can talk a boy or man’s head off all you want about responsibilities, accountability and relationships, but proof is in the pussy. No pussy, no manhood. No pussy, no happiness. No piece, no peace. Why do you think we men folk spend so much time trying to get the Benzito, tighten up our Playa word game, getting the fly clothes, pimping out the bachelor pad, and hitting the barber shop and weight room on a weekly? It’s to try gain that acknowledgement from women. It’s to get that self-esteem boost and those manhood points.
I don’t care how men try to spin it or if they claim they just ‘mackin-da-hoes’ or I’m a ‘playa-till-I-die’, or whatever. The bottom line is men have tied their self esteem to connecting with women. It’s a need. The name calling (i.e. ho, bitch, etc.) are just passive aggressive attempts by men to take power from a woman’s sexuality because men are so insecure about their own. Trust me, I get it. Been there, did that and observed hundreds of men do the same over the years. I know you love her holmes. I know you love them. I know you want to cry in her bossom and that’s why you lock her down so that no one will see the vulnerable you and know your pain and hurt and how she eased it. I get it. It feels good to let go and let love. In the meantime, men are at war with each other and themselves so there won’t be any real community or unity, only scheming to lock down the pussy.
We need women in our lives, but we need women in their full live in affect version, not the shell of a woman you’re seeing out here nowadays thanks to various lock down techniques like religion and name calling, self defensiveness as a control mechanism behavior. We need full, free, butt naked, unafraid, unabridged, fearless, fully protected women to heal us from the traumas of childhood, slavery, war, failed parental examples, lack of community, early cut umbilical cords, circumcision, failed relationships, a general lack of touch and intimacy and acknowledgment throughout our lives, and the psychotic nuclear family structure. Only a FREE woman can do it. Actually, only a large group of FREE women can do it. Her touch, gaze, stare, pussy, and affection will heal you and make you at least want to be a man again.
MEN you have to realize by suppressing women and their sexuality you are basically killing yourselves and your community. Sex will always be scarce for you and you’ll never be satisfied with the way you’re getting it now – by playing games. You know she’s not into you like that. You’re the only mf on the planet she thinks about. As a man I can tell you that is the case. We know for a fact she don’t look at us like that, which is why we are soooo slowwwww to marry and soooo slowwwww to be vulnerable to her, right?
She appreciates you, loves you, will even marry you, but you know there’s another man out there that’s got her open that she can’t tell you about and that f***s with us – to be perfectly honest – because we’re trying to maintain the fantasy too. That one-woman- who-is-solely-about-me-fantasy… Its a myth.
Locking one woman down locks down the entire community; and the strip club won’t cut it to make you feel loved. You know if you weren’t throwing some cash you would be getting no play, no attention, and no titties. There’s no fulfillment there. Prostitution won’t get it because at the end of the day who wants to be a customer, a number, or the appointment before and after the appointment to a woman who is just trying to survive as opposed to one who is a master of her art and honors her sensual healing powers.
Here is a solution:
If all the women are getting all the dic they wanted and allowed to be themselves with NO JUDGMENT then all the men get all the nani they want!! And trust me, yall need to get some more nani ~ just as much as these women need the dic. Y’all need the love, touch, intimacy, and acknowledgement something aweful. We all do. I know I do. I’m not even gonna front.
But until that time, carry on with the hatin, battles, masturbating, jealousy, talking about not a got dam thing, attempted lock down of your honey dip, game playing, strategizing and scheming, miseducation of your sons and daughters in telling them to find that special one instead of building a communal mindset and trusting themselves and the world, and the crumbling of our families and communities. If you don’t think it can get any worse, just keep doing what your doing.
MEN, WHEN ARE YOU GOING TO GO TO F*CKING WAR WITH YOUR DAM ISSUES. I MEAN REALLY. LOOK AROUND. ARE YOU GONNA LEAVE THE PLANET AND BE LIKE, THAT’S ABOUT ALL I COULD DO. WHAT IF GOD DOES EXIST AND ASKS YOU DIRECTLY, “WAS THAT THE BEST YOU COULD DO?” WHATCHA GONNA SAY? ”WELL, XBOX WAS REALLY COOL SO I SPENT MOST OF MY TIME DOING THAT.” NICE…
My calculus teacher Mr. Peabody used to write a new problem on the board and ask the class, “What do you do here?” No one in the whole fifty person class would say anything. Then he would say, “CLASS what do you do here!!! No one!? Well you better do something otherwise you can katybar the door and you’ll be sleeping in the streets.”