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So yesterday I had a gut wrenching experience on Twitter.  This boy was talking to me.  He seemed drunk or something, maybe high.

Either way, this boy, in his drunken stupor, twitted me a deeply eye-opening message.  After addressing him as King, which is the way I address most men I come into contact with, he wrote me back addressing me as Queen FREAK!

QUEEN FREAK!  WTF?

This pounded me to the floor of my soul.  I felt the rip inside of me and immediately I was back in high school where FREAK was the worst word in the world.  I hated THAT word!  I hated it with a passion.  I probably hated it most when I was the subject of the conversation in which it was used which seemed unavoidable in my school.  Every girl was at one point or another considered a FREAK.  This Twitter boy was offering me the opportunity to grow past my teenage self!  A real blissing in disguise…

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Many believe that Jujumama goes hard on the women.  Some believe I go hard on the guys.  Lesbians think I am hetero centered and I have not heard from any gay men, so I don’t know… but I am in the center of all of that so please get it straight.  I go hard on Western Cultural relationships.  They do not work – for the most part… and stats prove it.  A 60% divorce rate – for the most part.  Yes?

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Anywhoooo.  I have to crack open another double standard tonight. My husband is so wise, he really put all of this into perspective for me… so now I can talk about what he taught me. Western culture is male based and so this one is sort of ‘to be expected’.  When I say this, I mean we live in a lovely patriarchal culture where male power is seen as the most relevant form of power… ie talking, action, leadership, negotiation, sacrifice, are seen as the only form of ‘powerful’.  But because of this,  men get the short end of the stick in many matters of the heart. For instance…

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