A journey is like marriage. The certain way to be wrong is to think you control it.
I LOVE marriage and am an advocate for Mono-Harmonious couples! I have been married 14 years and I love the idea of having a life partner. Today I have made time to write a piece that will answer any questions for those who desire to know what JujuMama LLC – a love coaching company – feels about Monogamy – today I respond in full… This is going to be fun!
Webster’s Dictionary Refers To Monogamy with three definitions:
Definition of MONOGAMY
1: the practice of marrying only once during a lifetime
2: the state or custom of being married to one person at a time
3: the condition or practice of having a single mate during a period of time
In current usage monogamy often refers to having one sexual partner irrespective of marriage or reproduction.
Most individuals in Westernized countries are not Monogamous, but Serial Monogamist:
Serial monogamy is characterized by a series of long- or short-term, exclusive sexual relationships entered into consecutively over the lifespan.
Critics of monogamy, such as author and commentator Andrew Sullivan, argue that it involves a damaging self-denial that pushes people out of their natural instincts and that it can be psychologically damaging.
I am not a critic of Serial Monogamy or Monogamy. But I do know that neither exists in Western culture. Why do I say that neither monogamy or serial monogamy exists? That’s simple, the practice of being sexually exclusive is not adhered to by anyone in this country, even when in a stated sexually monogamous or committed relationship, and I can prove it easily…
And keep in mind, I will also share my idea of how we can fix monogamy, with a my sustainable relationship model I introduce here, called Mono-Hamrony. Read On!