Part of the reason that men seem so much less loving than women is that men’s behavior is measured with a feminine ruler. ~Francesca M. Cancian
Greetings and de-light to you! I have been meaning to pen this post for quite a while now, but I’ve been too busy. Today, however, I take the time to do it because a friend inspired me this morning… well actually it began on Twitter yesterday when a young woman wrote that she doesn’t have sex on the first date, even when she wants to, because of societal norms that would taint her a whore. I posted this on JujuMama’s fan page to see what the response would be and if any other women felt this way.
Well, all the women felt this way! And one woman sited that she felt men need a chase…
Well, here I am begging to differ. In fact, I vehemently oppose the view that men need a chase. I believe that we have, like the quote above points out, judged men with a feminine ruler on this one – truly. And I know this runs against all modern day logic, but that is what we do here at Jujumama and it is a job that must be done; a job we are extremely proud of.
So, if I am telling you that men don’t want a chase, then what do men want? Why is it that so many women find themselves giving in to the temptation of a first night fling in the bedroom only to find that the man doesn’t call her ever again? Or worse, maybe she finds herself in a rabid affair with a loving man who fizzles out after just a few romps in the sack. Oh yeah, that’s worse, right?
So here is the skinny. I’m going to try to make this short and sweet.
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