It’s so hard when I have to, and so easy when I want to. ~Annie Gottlier
This is the secret key to love…
Ladies, I have heard some women complaining that their man is not willing to give up enough of the good stuff. I even speak with women in their 20′s and 30′s stating that their boyfriends are unable to perform at various moments in time.
OK?
Well please note – there is an easy cure for this. I spoke about it in detail in my article on Viagra. However, here is the short version. If you want your man to be hard, you have to be soft.
It is really just that simple. You cannot run about all day bossing him around, complaining, being tough, independent, irritated and even hurtful with your words or actions and then expect for him to make love with you, or WANT to make love with you. Sure, you can expect him to do so, but if he is holding on to inner rage about your arrogant and disrespectful behavior, he will not be able to perform. Over time this looks like erectile dysfunction, but guess what? He only has it with you! LOL! So it ain’t real!
Girl, I have been there and done that in my years of monogamy (I’ve been married since I was HOT and 21!!!).
It is not fun, and it is hard to accept that the cause of his “issue” may be some behavior on your part. But once you take ownership for your entire life, including the way that others treat you, you will become empowered to change anything about any relationship with a mild shift in your own behaviors! Sound too hard? Well try living with an erectile dysfunctional man for a few more years and then come back to this post and try following this advise.
I think you will then kiss me!
Try this trick to get some good stuff this weekend:
I was Twittering a friend who thinks she may be jinxing her relationship. This friend is quite intuitive because she is right! We are talking about energy here and yes, we do at times jinx relationships, money, career, and friendships with old thoughts from the past:
This is An AWESOME discussion held Friday March 6, 2009 on Blog Talk with host Curtis Duncan. Curtis was a gracious host – we really got to the heart of a few matters:
Today I will tell you something true. Women will always want more. We want MORE. We will always, always, always want MORE… This is a good thing.
But how do we get the more we seek?
#1 RAISE YOUR VIBRATION
Imagine you are listening to 99.5 on the radio but now you want more jazz and less hip-hop. How do you get what you want? Seems simple, right, you simply change the radio dial up a few notches until you reach 107.5 smooth jazz. Great.
Love is this way as well. Let us say you are currently in a relationship that simply is not meeting your needs. You do not feel happy, in fact your mad as hell most of the time. Why not change the channel – get more of what you want?
Ade and Ombassa interviewed JujuMama on BlogTalkRadio!
This is really funny! Ade, the wonderful man he is, decided to put JujuMama to the test about by first book Change Your Man. He did get testy but JujuMama held her own, as usual! LOL!
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Someone on facebook just mentioned she was single because she is crazy. LOL! Not all single people would admit to this, and most are not crazy…However what are you? Are you single and happy? Good for you!
If you are single I know that you haven’t always been, so what’s happnin in the love department? It has to be one of eleven things:
Here is a little excerpt from Change Your Man – my fabulous first book – that explains exactly how I took my status from single (or free) to married in a matter of months…
What should you do when your lover won’t behave well?
The answers to these questions depend on how you view life. Are you a Victim in life or Co-Creator of your relationship? There is only one way to make a bad relationship good, it requires penetrating insight into Universal Laws. The easy out – or running away – will never do the trick. You’ll just run right to another situation that will challenge you again to work out your own issues.
For every effect, there is a cause. This is the most basic Universal Law. Use it when in a bind with your honey:
For all it’s worth, sex is a great way to make your dreams come true. Sure, it may be a dream come true to simply engage in the magical act with your beloved. However, to harness the energy of this experience to create just about anything you want in life is an entirely different story!
Have you ever done it? Have you utilized the brilliant white light of sexual bliss to focus into your primary objectives? Let me explain what I mean…
Introduction | Change Your Man – Book Released November 2008
Kenya K Stevens, CEO | JujuMama LLC
OK.I have a confession to make. For many years I behaved very badly in my marriage.I was controlling, spoiled, immature, needy, and even violent.Not only did I behave badly, but I was Continue reading
