By now, we all have heard on the media about Newt Gingrich’s ex-wife’s interview regarding his plea with her for an Open Marriage…. When people think Open Marriage, automatically they think, sex, corruption and falling out of a relationship.
Here at Jujumama we challenge this belief. We commend Newt Gingrich for attempting Continue reading
Love is my inspiration……..
I look at everyone as my lovers, inspiring me day by day to become who I need to be. I see you and I see me in you. I learn from you as I learn about you.
Love is but the sweetest magic around us. Fulfills the Continue reading
When is it ok to say ” I LOVE YOU”?….. Not too soon or you’ll look needy, not too long or you’ll look disinterested. This is what we always ask ourselves when we relate to a new person.
Let me ask you this: Do you wait to say ” I Continue reading
I can see clearly now the rain is gone………whooohooo
I am fairly new at everything Progressive Love. I have recently checked my eyes of love and energy… I have learned I couldn’t see. I have reached for some clarity through Progressive Love and now its so clear……….
It all goes a Continue reading
Recently I saw this image online and whoa! I had a real reaction to it… the image made my skin tingle, and my heart rate speed up. The image made my body go into a different feeling than I had been in before I saw the image. I can’t really Continue reading
So I have loads of people asking me this question. I mean the emails are off the hook! Everyone wants to know how they can tell if their own relationship is ready to open. An open relationship is one in which both partners are free to have outside partners on an intimate and emotional level.
Here is a little checklist of attributes that I would say serve as prerequisites for this type of love… open love. Now mind you, some relationships will never be ready and that too is OK. This is not for everyone, but what is? LOL! And we highly suggest you secure Love Coaching is you want to walk this path with your partner…
OK – so here is the list. Whether you are in a marriage or a committed relationship or single, the list still applies…
This discussion took place on one of my nationwide phone calls. It really went deeply into the topics of Open Relationships, Swinging, Monogamy and Compersion. We discussed the fact that it has been more acceptable in the past for women to settle with a man who has many women, Continue reading
I am a black man and a cheater. Not all the time, just every now and then. The itch comes to me, and no matter what my wife does, I still can’t help but want another woman. At least for a night, or two, or three.
I love my wife very much. No woman I’ve ever met or will meet will hold a more important place in my life. I also love my kids, our house, my job and the fish in my daughter’s room. I love everything about my life at home, even though my relationship has become dull and rocky. But while I love having a strong black family, I also love being a man, and there is a part of me that just can’t handle monogamy.
I see a lot of misinformation in Essence and other black women’s magazines about men and what we want. It’s silly to me, because women don’t know a thing about us. At the same time, they spend all their time talking about us. They always think they have us figured out, that we can be changed, and that they can come up with some magic formula that will control us and make us want to give them all the blissful matrimony they are seeking.
They couldn’t be more wrong.
