By now, we all have heard on the media about Newt Gingrich’s ex-wife’s interview regarding his plea with her for an Open Marriage…. When people think Open Marriage, automatically they think, sex, corruption and falling out of a relationship.
Here at Jujumama we challenge this belief. We commend Newt Gingrich for attempting Continue reading
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One day, the American President Calvin Coolidge & his wife were visiting a Government farm & were taken on separate tours. Mrs. Coolidge asked at the chicken pens, whether the rooster copulated more than once a day. Dozens of times, said the Continue reading
This video is clearly pointing to higher science, Check it out! So today I’ve decided to give a few clues about violence among men and women in modern relationships – which is at an all time high! In fact, women resort to physical violence at a rate double to that Continue reading
“Girl, shoot! He did what? Uh-uhn!”
“Say what?! Girl, leave that man! He’s so stupid!”
“He lied about having babies!? Girl, we need to go fuck up his tires!”
Well if you call up some of your girl friends, sisters, cousins, and aunts, they just might give responses like these. Continue reading
Hay lovers! We’re so excited to present to you Argument Resolution Tantra – a new movie from UnCut Juju! We call it UnCut Juju because the entire 45 minute session was recorded without edit, script, cutting or pasting much of anything. It is totally raw! This trailer gives you an Continue reading
What is JLA’s Progressive Love Movement?
The Progressive Love Movement is the CORE of JujuMama’s Love Academy! We are excited to share this healing love with the world. JujuMama’s Love Academy offers courses, media, online manifestation systems, coaches training and love coaching!
OUR BIG GOAL right now is to add Continue reading
This is a response to a fan who wanted to know more about HOW to create a committed relationship. If you have more questions I will answer them in Video format if you leave them here on our blog! We love you! xoxo
This is part four of a video series we did non Integrity Based Relationships (formerly known as open relationships). This is a VERY good video, by the end I was crying and VERY emotional. My husband really broke down loads about how men think. I want you to really focus and enjoy this ten minute adventure in male honesty. FINALLY! I love it!
Part 1,2, and three can be found in the next post… or on our youtube channel
A journey is like marriage. The certain way to be wrong is to think you control it.
John Steinbeck
I LOVE marriage and am an advocate for Mono-Harmonious couples! I have been married 14 years and I love the idea of having a life partner. Today I have made time to write a piece that will answer any questions for those who desire to know what JujuMama LLC – a love coaching company – feels about Monogamy – today I respond in full… This is going to be fun!
Webster’s Dictionary Refers To Monogamy with three definitions:
In current usage monogamy often refers to having one sexual partner irrespective of marriage or reproduction.
Most individuals in Westernized countries are not Monogamous, but Serial Monogamist:
Serial monogamy is characterized by a series of long- or short-term, exclusive sexual relationships entered into consecutively over the lifespan.
Critics of monogamy, such as author and commentator Andrew Sullivan, argue that it involves a damaging self-denial that pushes people out of their natural instincts and that it can be psychologically damaging.
I am not a critic of Serial Monogamy or Monogamy. But I do know that neither exists in Western culture. Why do I say that neither monogamy or serial monogamy exists? That’s simple, the practice of being sexually exclusive is not adhered to by anyone in this country, even when in a stated sexually monogamous or committed relationship, and I can prove it easily…
And keep in mind, I will also share my idea of how we can fix monogamy, with a my sustainable relationship model I introduce here, called Mono-Hamrony. Read On!
I am a black man and a cheater. Not all the time, just every now and then. The itch comes to me, and no matter what my wife does, I still can’t help but want another woman. At least for a night, or two, or three.
I love my wife very much. No woman I’ve ever met or will meet will hold a more important place in my life. I also love my kids, our house, my job and the fish in my daughter’s room. I love everything about my life at home, even though my relationship has become dull and rocky. But while I love having a strong black family, I also love being a man, and there is a part of me that just can’t handle monogamy.
I see a lot of misinformation in Essence and other black women’s magazines about men and what we want. It’s silly to me, because women don’t know a thing about us. At the same time, they spend all their time talking about us. They always think they have us figured out, that we can be changed, and that they can come up with some magic formula that will control us and make us want to give them all the blissful matrimony they are seeking.
They couldn’t be more wrong.
