I am that… yes, ahead of my time… I realize that I identify with this ad and with Steve Jobs because I am different, I am what some of you consider to be a different thinker… but I am real, I am sincere and I am committed to my purpose: To undo the guilt and shame that women and men feel about sensual/spiritual/sexual acts of love – thus opening millions to the Aquarian Paradigms of Universal Love, Progressive Love and Boundless Power to Manifest Anything Desired!
This week I have placed some older stories to the front page… I went digging in the JujuMama crates to see how far we’ve come as ONE… Thank you for reading JujuMama | Manifest Sexy circa 2008!
Here is the original post | Ahead of My Time | January 1, 2009
This is an interesting article that I found… I love the Examiner – such an open minded post…
Armoring is a process whereby past traumatic experiences are stored in the body’s muscle tissues. What happens is that the body’s tissues harden, creating tension and blocking energy flow to the area that was traumatized. (The Art of Sexual Ecstasy)
Article By: Luminessa Enjara
In general your entire body is armored. This usually starts at an early age, even during infancy. To the degree that we as babies and later children feel safe, loved and cared for, is the degree in which we begin to develop armoring…
So yesterday I had a gut wrenching experience on Twitter. This boy was talking to me. He seemed drunk or something, maybe high.
Either way, this boy, in his drunken stupor, twitted me a deeply eye-opening message. After addressing him as King, which is the way I address most men I come into contact with, he wrote me back addressing me as Queen FREAK!
QUEEN FREAK! WTF?
This pounded me to the floor of my soul. I felt the rip inside of me and immediately I was back in high school where FREAK was the worst word in the world. I hated THAT word! I hated it with a passion. I probably hated it most when I was the subject of the conversation in which it was used which seemed unavoidable in my school. Every girl was at one point or another considered a FREAK. This Twitter boy was offering me the opportunity to grow past my teenage self! A real blissing in disguise…
Many believe that Jujumama goes hard on the women. Some believe I go hard on the guys. Lesbians think I am hetero centered and I have not heard from any gay men, so I don’t know… but I am in the center of all of that so please get it straight. I go hard on Western Cultural relationships. They do not work – for the most part… and stats prove it. A 60% divorce rate – for the most part. Yes?
Anywhoooo. I have to crack open another double standard tonight. My husband is so wise, he really put all of this into perspective for me… so now I can talk about what he taught me. Western culture is male based and so this one is sort of ‘to be expected’. When I say this, I mean we live in a lovely patriarchal culture where male power is seen as the most relevant form of power… ie talking, action, leadership, negotiation, sacrifice, are seen as the only form of ‘powerful’. But because of this, men get the short end of the stick in many matters of the heart. For instance…
Life is a process of becoming, a combination of states we have to go through. Where people fail is that they wish to elect a state and remain in it. This is a kind of death.
Anais Nin
So I have a bone to pick with men. This has been on my heart for a moment. Men want happy, satisfied, whole, pleasable women, correct? This blog is all about how women can treat men better, love and respect men more – find love again in the arms of men… But there is something more to it.
There is something men must do in order to attract the orgasmic woman he desires, the type of woman who relaxes and allow a man’s leadership… Here it is: Men must accept women for who and what we are. We are not men. We are woman – or maybe women who have been trained to be men. But when we learn to become women again, we will desire to share our love with the world. A woman’s love is uncontainable, uncontrollable, and free like the breeze… That means, you can enjoy it but you cannot own it…
Yes. I said it.
We will submit and surrender, honor and respect you, but never will you be able to contain our love for just yourself. Not any more…
Why is there is a certain embarrassment or even shame that is connected with sexual dysfunction? No one would be ashamed to have, for example, a liver or heart dysfunction. One would be sad but not embarrassed and one would immediately ask a professional for help.
The most common sexual Continue reading
