Dating should be a fun and engaging time for young and old! However, many fear the ins and outs of dating. I believe the fears are warranted. Many have collected dating experiences that have been less than ideal. Many have dated individuals, even attempted long-term relationships, only to have things unravel Continue reading
Recently I was asked about what it means to be an African American woman practicing polyamory. According to WIkipedia Polyamory (from Greek πολύ [poly], meaning “many” or “several”, and Latin amor, “love“) is the practice, desire, or acceptance of having more than one intimate Continue reading
Hubby and I were just talking about compromise and why we don’t believe in it. We advocate compassion over compromise every day of the week. We were saying how when one person is authentic and does what he or she wants to do authentically, it’s best. Why? Because then the Continue reading
Post From Torayanita | A guest author at JujuMama
Among those who are aware of Open Relationships, there are several questions that continuously arise in seeking to understand this way of relating:
Why do ‘you people’ [open relators] feel the need to have so many lovers?
Is it based on an unquenchable Continue reading
As much as we try to escape it, I find that the relationship or life discussion is difficult without asking the ‘Who am I’ and ‘Why am I here’ questions. The truth is we all have a belief about who we are and why we’re here and those beliefs provide Continue reading
I don’t believe in the concept of a jump-off. Here is what I mean. I don’t like it when certain women are looked at as strictly sex partners and thus looked down upon by other women and the men they love. Jump-offs and side-pieces don’t exist in my world. Continue reading
Well folks. I don’t usually get into topics of race, hence my name on Huffington Post: Post-Racial Black Girl; An oxymoron of course. I believe I am a cosmic being. I do not belong to any race. I am Universal by design – one with all beings…
Anywhoo. This is Continue reading
Alright, so this is important. There are many men walking the planet today who believe their fathers were “bad guys” because they had many lovers beyond their wives. Often these men feel their father’s behavior “destroyed” the family or hurt the mother… Well, I’m here to tell you these are not “bad” men in the least. Continue reading
Yesterday in JujuMama’s Blue Butterfly Room, a forum where women converse around topics that intersts us, we discussed the shame and guilt many women report with having more than one male lover in the same space of time. We are a culture obsessed with cartoon like female virginity, monogamy fairy tales, and Continue reading
Please watch my video rants to know EXACTLY what I think of you each!
These videos are important to the proliferation of the Progressive Love – Progressive Love is not intellectual! I need you all to feel that! Games – my name for modern “love” – have gone on Continue reading
