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Each friend represents a world in us, a world not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.
Anais Nin
You know I have to say it – I open to the infinite possibilities of life. I know that, like a Continue reading
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OK – So what is the deal people? Can someone help me understand when we are going to get rid of this dated concept of manipulation. I mean, this one went out with corsets (well, corsets are sexy, except when they break your ribs). Let’s see, this one went out with ceramic shingles (well, those are sort of elegant). OK fine, this one went out with the concept of BLAME. Nothing pretty about blaming someone else for any part of your life right?
Same senselessness in choosing to believe in another dying paradigm – Manipulation. SO we’re gonna look at this because we have to. Men and women alike are afraid to be called a manipulator. Yet, we want to master the Law of Attraction, we want to become Creators of our lives. But, the two concepts do not fit together ~ manifestation and manipulation. Blame is the essence of manipulation. If someone is “manipulating” another or (heaven forbid) manipulating you, then you do not believe that you create your life. You in fact believe in the concept of blame… right?
No one is doing anything to us. We are creating everything for ourselves. AND, when we ladies put on that feminine energy and shine it into the world, we are not ‘doing anything’ to anyone, we are simply using our natural talent to manifest our desires quickly and easily! Feminine magnetism is MAGICAL!
How can we think that working magic in our lives to create what we desire can be a form of manipulation? Come now.
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This is An AWESOME discussion held Friday March 6, 2009 on Blog Talk with host Curtis Duncan. Curtis was a gracious host – we really got to the heart of a few matters:
- How To Change Your Man – Quantum Effects
- How To Open To Love – Feminine Flow Continue reading
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I am currently doing a large spread on The Erotic Life of Women prior to Patriarchal Rule…
Here is a prelude to a Kiss my lovelies… I found this article online and it is spot on!
The ancient art of ambrosia (female ejaculation) is a resurging mystery that intrigues more Continue reading
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This discussion took place on one of my nationwide phone calls. It really went deeply into the topics of Open Relationships, Swinging, Monogamy and Compersion. We discussed the fact that it has been more acceptable in the past for women to settle with a man who has many women, Continue reading
It will not be the most popular view on the web, people love to take the side of a “victim”. That’s nice – I guess.
I love to get to the metaphysical essence of a ‘situation’ and sort out the real meaning. In this way, we prevent having to repeat Continue reading
So a few weeks ago I posted an article about a Cheating man. First off, ‘cheating’ is a stupid word. I mean WTF does that mean? Cheating implies that we are playing a game in the first place. Games are just that! Relationships are not games. Come on!
Let us address the article and comments…
So in summary, this man was talking about how he ‘cheats’ on his wife and will never stop, end of story. He said that he never wanted to be married or domesticated and that this woman had simply leashed him to conform to societal norms as a bi-product of her need to control.
He had gone along willingly because he truly loves his woman and wants to see her happy. And do not get him wrong, he too is ‘happy’. A devoted family man, and provider, but he desires moments ‘out’. It helps him feel OK with things. He thinks it is only fair and that she never has to know…
Read this man’s initial post here…
Come back when you are done to check theses reader comments.
Damia Said:
Its good to hear this from the “horses mouth.” I believe his point of view is very common. I was not upset by it because I sometimes feel the same way. However, being a woman of child bearing years, I still desire the “support” and “security” of a marriage in which to have children. Does having this mean I alienate the man I love or who loves me? Perhaps there should be an annual review or something to determine whether the relationship is still serving our needs. Not sure, just a few thoughts…
JujuMama: I agree Damia! To desire support and security is normal for women. Men love to provide this, but what does security have to do with his penis? Uh Oh – Yes, I went there. Many women have been trained since youth to desire a man love ONLY us. Conditioned by lots of foolish tales called Soap Operas, Sit-Coms, and so forth, this has always been a sticky point - releasing the need to control.
I found in marriage that security and support flow when I allow my man to lead. Women cannot expect men to secure a Independent Minded Diva! LOL! For our first 11 years together, I was boss! Many women do not receive a leading man very well. At year 12 I gave up my female penis and gave him back the pants. Talk about alienation, my man was on the verge of going nuts by the time I was done with him. “Secure me baby, but follow my damned orders…” Confusing.
Once I surrendered, I thought he was going to feel better about the relationship and he did. However, he also began to find more interest in women! What?! I was pissed off! I thought that allowing him to lead would look like getting my way and just allowing him to think he is the boss. When he began leading us based on what he considered to be our best interest, I flipped! Now what does this have to do with a Cheating man?
Dig it…It seems odd that women want a sensitive, homebody of a man and a Gangsta Lovah wrapped into one! Not that it does not exist, but…The harder the man, the more women he will attract – point blank period!
Someone on facebook just mentioned she was single because she is crazy. LOL! Not all single people would admit to this, and most are not crazy…However what are you? Are you single and happy? Good for you!
If you are single I know that you haven’t always been, so what’s happnin in the love department? It has to be one of eleven things:
- You just enjoy being alone in that place, no messes to clean besides your own.
- You don’t like people, too complicated.
- You don’t want to impose your crazy self upon another human, living soul.
- You don’t believe in love – the shit is foolish and never works out to good.
- You haven’t found THE ONE – the MANY, however, you find quite appealing.
- You are struggling with sexual preference issues.
- You have lost your mind working and cannot come up for air.
- Your parents did not set a good example, so you are afraid to become them.
- Your dogs or cats or fish don’t like people.
- You are having a bad hair life.
- You can count on one hand the percentage of tolerance you have for foolishness, besides your own, of course.
Here is a little excerpt from Change Your Man – my fabulous first book – that explains exactly how I took my status from single (or free) to married in a matter of months…
Watch this video to understand this expose. OK. You saw that? Good. Mehna Mehna does indeed have a meaning. My interpretation may be shocking…
