
Many believe that Jujumama goes hard on the women. Some believe I go hard on the guys. Lesbians think I am hetero centered and I have not heard from any gay men, so I don’t know… but I am in the center of all of that so please get it straight. I go hard on Western Cultural relationships. They do not work – for the most part… and stats prove it. A 60% divorce rate – for the most part. Yes?

Anywhoooo. I have to crack open another double standard tonight. My husband is so wise, he really put all of this into perspective for me… so now I can talk about what he taught me. Western culture is male based and so this one is sort of ‘to be expected’. When I say this, I mean we live in a lovely patriarchal culture where male power is seen as the most relevant form of power… ie talking, action, leadership, negotiation, sacrifice, are seen as the only form of ‘powerful’. But because of this, men get the short end of the stick in many matters of the heart. For instance…
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