Hello one and all! This is a repost of Kenya K Steven’s infamous Yes Yes Yes Ritual from 2007 – Kenya wrote this post WAAAAAYY before the Yes Man Movie was made, she wonders if Yes Man was taken from this very concept! Anyhow, there have been many requests for Continue reading
Oh my goodness – February – the month of love. I want a second wedding in the Islands complete with good friends, good food and plenty of sun! I want a shiny new 2 carat “rock” on my left ring finger to symbolize our decade of bliss. I have been married to my handsome hunk of a man for 11 strong years. And today I am wanting to talk about it!
Let me just start by saying that getting married at age 21 is not a simple feat. I had been, since age 16, planning to meet my husband at age 21. Dreaming about marriage was my favorite pass time as a girl. So when college hit, the search was on!! What fun – at first – but over the years, the search became slow and painful. As I approached 20 – I felt a little hopeless as all 61 of my prior boyfriends had been flops.
It seemed that I was just in love with love – seeking a real union with men who were not worth my time. I would go into relationships thinking and exuding “marry me” and he’d be thinking “pass the blunt”. I dreaded finding out that my boyfriends were all marijuana heads, or video game freaks, or just seeing so many other women that polygamy was the only serious marital arrangement I could expect.
