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I haven’t written in a while, been working on my latest book.  I had to take a break and acknowledge Jill Scott, she inspired me this week.  WOW>  Did a sistah take social media by storm, or what?  It was Hurricane Jill blowing up the skirts of conservative black women, exposing their long white bloomers of sexual shame, making em flinch upon hearing their favorite heart song icon, and love DIVA is considering – may goodness forgive her – an open relationship!!

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Audio

Some humans believe heartbreak is normal…

I do not.

Heartbreak is a response to the way we live -

The tiny, limited, keyhole, “love” processing of today.

Heartbreak is spirit’s alarm clock.

Heartbreak is a angel stirring us from one dreadful illusion.

Heartbreak is an anti-self promoting actual self.

“Wake up” – say’s heartbreak.

“You are not Living… or Loving”

“You’re existing below your means…”

Enjoy this recording from #jujumama and #beautiful #butterfly

The topic is Open Relationships – WHY to – HOW to


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Anyone who doesn't take truth seriously in small matters cannot be trusted in large ones either. ~Albert Einstein

Dear Delicious Man,

This letter finds me with you again, for the second time, pleading with you to do this the right way if you want the damned thing done.  First, I would highly advise you read my first letter to men who want more than one woman.  Find Continue reading →

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This is part four of a video series we did non Integrity Based Relationships (formerly known as open relationships). This is a VERY good video, by the end I was crying and VERY emotional. My husband really broke down loads about how men think. I want you to really focus and enjoy this ten minute adventure in male honesty. FINALLY! I love it!

Part 1,2, and three can be found in the next post… or on our youtube channel

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Many believe that Jujumama goes hard on the women.  Some believe I go hard on the guys.  Lesbians think I am hetero centered and I have not heard from any gay men, so I don’t know… but I am in the center of all of that so please get it straight.  I go hard on Western Cultural relationships.  They do not work – for the most part… and stats prove it.  A 60% divorce rate – for the most part.  Yes?

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Anywhoooo.  I have to crack open another double standard tonight. My husband is so wise, he really put all of this into perspective for me… so now I can talk about what he taught me. Western culture is male based and so this one is sort of ‘to be expected’.  When I say this, I mean we live in a lovely patriarchal culture where male power is seen as the most relevant form of power… ie talking, action, leadership, negotiation, sacrifice, are seen as the only form of ‘powerful’.  But because of this,  men get the short end of the stick in many matters of the heart. For instance…

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So I have loads of people asking me this question.  I mean the emails are off the hook! Everyone wants to know how they can tell if their own relationship is ready to open.  An open relationship is one in which both partners are free to have outside partners on an intimate and emotional level.

Here is a little checklist of attributes that I would say serve as prerequisites for this type of love… open love.  Now mind you, some relationships will never be ready and that too is OK.  This is not for everyone, but what is?  LOL!  And we highly suggest you secure Love Coaching is you want to walk this path with your partner…

OK – so here is the list.  Whether you are in a marriage or a committed relationship or single, the list still applies…

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So last night I was in the need for a little Tantric Bliss…

I work around the clock as CEO, CFO, Marketing Director, Blogger, Mother, Wet Nurse, Wife, Energy Healer, Tantrica,  Manager of 5 Virtual Assistants, Book Distributor, Twitter Queen, Lover, Event Coordinator, Motivational Speaker, Web Developer, Friend, Counselor, PR Director, Publicist, Brand Manager, Laundry Maid, and of course Goddess/DIVA.

So I was like REALLY in need last night. Do ya’ll feel me? LOL!

I desire to be more than loved, I desire to be worshiped!

Now, before you call me blasphemous, hear me out.  Human beings – all of us, I dare say – need to be worshiped from time to time.

This entails another human being (or two – whatever ;~) adoring and adorning your body, mind and soul, sending healing vibrations into your soul, speaking strings of kind words into your heart, acknowledging you, sensually, and in every way!  Often we think we need to have a main lover or serious partner to do this.  But that is old school, old paradigm thought!

LOVE HEALS!  How often do you get it in?  LOL!  Here is how it works…

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