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Here is the note I got today from a young lady concerned about virginity…

Kenya

I’ve always been taught to “wait” for the “right” person to have sex with and I do believe in monogamy. Lately I’ve been reading your blog and I know you talk about attraction and opportunity. I’m 19 years old and have never had sex. The opportunity of sex has always been there, but there was no one I ever felt it would be “right” with. I thought I would be in a relationship with a man, fall in love, etc. then have sex with him. But for the first time I’ve met a man whom I have no desire to be in a relationship with but I am extremely attracted to him mentally, physically and emotionally. I know that we attract what we are but I can’t seem to figure this one out. I admit that I am nervous about being alone with him because there is no doubt that I would give myself to him. I know I would not regret it because I don’t regret any decisions that I make, instead I simply learn from them. I don’t agree with everything you say but I am open to all that you say. With that being said I would appreciate some insight on this.

Thank you,

Anonymous

I have replied below… Thanks!

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OK – So what is the deal people?  Can someone help me understand when we are going to get rid of this dated concept of manipulation.  I mean, this one went out with corsets (well, corsets are sexy, except when they break your ribs).  Let’s see, this one went out with ceramic shingles (well, those are sort of elegant).  OK fine, this one went out with the concept of BLAME.  Nothing pretty about blaming someone else for any part of your life right?

Same senselessness in choosing to believe in another dying paradigm – Manipulation.  SO we’re gonna look at this because we have to.  Men and women alike are afraid to be called a manipulator.  Yet, we want to master the Law of Attraction, we want to become Creators of our lives.  But, the two concepts do not fit together ~ manifestation and manipulation.  Blame is the essence of manipulation.  If someone is “manipulating” another or (heaven forbid) manipulating you, then you do not believe that you create your life.  You in fact believe in the concept of blame… right?

No one is doing anything to us.  We are creating everything for ourselves.  AND, when we ladies put on that feminine energy and shine it into the world, we are not ‘doing anything’ to anyone, we are simply using our natural talent to manifest our desires quickly and easily!  Feminine magnetism is MAGICAL!

How can we think that working magic in our lives to create what we desire can be a form of manipulation?  Come now.

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Why is there is a certain embarrassment or even shame that is connected with sexual dysfunction? No one would be ashamed to have, for example, a liver or heart dysfunction. One would be sad but not embarrassed and one would immediately ask a professional for help.

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sexywomanmailingletterDear Wonderful Men,

I am writing on behalf of all women (I hope).  This letter is especially oriented for men in relationships with women, long term relationships, marriages and short term relationships for that matter!  I want to talk about your desire to have more.  We all want more.  More love, more freedom, more fun!  We honor you.  We want that too.  Everyone wants to feel free and happy, right?

Let me explain a few things to you that will surely get that DIVA you are working with on the right page about the relationship.  She needs your love and I know you need her respect and both of you can have BOTH!  Easy as pie!

The trick is simple. In this letter, I offer four ways for you to take your relationship to the next level.

I guess I’m talking to men today because of all the emails I get from men who say:

“Kenya K, I want my wife or lover to open up in the ways you have to your husband  – but she won’t let me do anything like that.  She would kill me if she knew I were writing you!”

I guess these men are talking about the open relationship piece.  But there are a few things that must be in tact in a primary relationship before women will even consider doing anything outside the norm.  Women are VERY conservative.

This is from the heart…

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I am currently doing a large spread on The Erotic Life of Women prior to Patriarchal Rule…

Here is a prelude to a Kiss my lovelies… I found this article online and it is spot on!

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I release all the ways I hold my happiness away from you when I am angry, saddened or upset.

I release all the ways I shut down – lose my peace – become tense – forget my divinity…

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Vulnerable Defined

1 : capable of being physically or emotionally wounded

2 : open to attack or damage : assailable <vulnerable to criticism

3 : liable to increased penalties but entitled to increased bonuses after winning a game in contract bridge

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