Recently I was asked about what it means to be an African American woman practicing polyamory. According to WIkipedia Polyamory (from Greek πολύ [poly], meaning “many” or “several”, and Latin amor, “love“) is the practice, desire, or acceptance of having more than one intimate Continue reading
Well folks. I don’t usually get into topics of race, hence my name on Huffington Post: Post-Racial Black Girl; An oxymoron of course. I believe I am a cosmic being. I do not belong to any race. I am Universal by design – one with all beings…
Anywhoo. This is Continue reading
This morning I was inspired by this clip. I know this speaks to African American relationships, however the identity issue noted is not about race, or at least very slightly. It’s about our connection to Source. I believe the greatest issue we face in building successful relationships – of all race – Continue reading
So let us take some of the concepts from Kenya’s video and break them down in this post. I will answer the questions Kenya poses here and share my thoughts – It’s Jhos the Diva!
You’re in an Open Relationship, so you must be swingers!
Wow!! No that is not Continue reading
I didn’t want to do this, but I feel I must. It’s time. There is just too much misinformation flying around town these days as the world opens to love, and older ways are revealed to be unsustainable. Sure, as marriage becomes an Epic Fail in our culture, we are seeking, looking, formulating new ideas about how to love…
Some look toward Polygyny which is the practice of one man having many wives who are monogamous to him.
In my humble view… Polygyny should not even be considered as a sustainable modality for today’s times – we are way too smart for that – we are way too advanced to walk that path.
I haven’t written in a while, been working on my latest book. I had to take a break and acknowledge Jill Scott, she inspired me this week. WOW> Did a sistah take social media by storm, or what? It was Hurricane Jill blowing up the skirts of conservative black women, exposing their long white bloomers of sexual shame, making em flinch upon hearing their favorite heart song icon, and love DIVA is considering – may goodness forgive her – an open relationship!!
All I can say is WOW! I have seen this video a few times as kind people sent it along… I thought to post it today because it speaks volumes. You’ll have to watch this for yourself and do share your thoughts below… Amazing Poem… Amazing Woman! FAR before her Continue reading
So ladies. Let’s talk. Whats all this I hear about low libido women? When I walk on the streets certain people know who I am and maybe they read my blog. They tell me that I am a brave woman for having an open relationship. But they ask me one question or make one simple statement: “I don’t like sex that much. I don’t even feel like having sex with the one man I have”. OK?
What’s up with that?
For some, this is a statement of validation. I am female, I don’t like sex. A credo of sorts that is simply old news in my book. For others this is a statement of defeat. I just don’t get into that… But for me – I am hearing something deeper in the voices of women everywhere who have come to me with this situation – low libido…
