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Love is my inspiration……..
I look at everyone as my lovers, inspiring me day by day to become who I need to be. I see you and I see me in you. I learn from you as I learn about you.
Love is but the sweetest magic around us. Fulfills the Continue reading

Man & Woman must re-learn to interact sexually with a spiritual purpose — Although it has been said physical functions, like sex, are a remnant of animal life, somehow, we have never been able to accept this. All along, we’ve wondered why nature created this special process. What is the Continue reading

When is it ok to say ” I LOVE YOU”?….. Not too soon or you’ll look needy, not too long or you’ll look disinterested. This is what we always ask ourselves when we relate to a new person.
Let me ask you this: Do you wait to say ” I Continue reading
This dude is so on point in terms of his ability to be in the POWERFUL masculine energy we call Negotiator. To answer Fox News questions spontaneously and with so much passion ~ he had to be in the zone! This is really phenomenal! Super SEXY! We likey!
And he is not Continue reading
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Stop pouting about your man’s bad attitude…
Stop complaining about attracting the ‘wrong guys’.
Life is not random. The man you find yourself involved with is no accident. You have a great deal to learn from that Continue reading
This is a response to a fan who wanted to know more about HOW to create a committed relationship. If you have more questions I will answer them in Video format if you leave them here on our blog! We love you! xoxo
I love this article because Tantra is far older than India. I have always said this and I do know that most all ancient civilizations practiced sacred sex… Check this article by Drunvalo.
Sex, and specifically the orgasm, is more that just something that feels good and allows procreation. There Continue reading

Men – if you are having any one of the symptoms below – CALL JUJUMAMA! We can work it out so that you can have the respect you so desire!
10 clues that men need a little loving support in the relationship department:
1. You have often found yourself calling women ‘golddiggers’ and wish to have an independent woman who will not need you to secure her or take care of her financial needs.
2. You have often desired your mate to be the sexual aggressor. Your libido is not so steady and you need her to show you that she wants you a little bit more.
Dear Wonderful Men,
I am writing on behalf of all women (I hope). This letter is especially oriented for men in relationships with women, long term relationships, marriages and short term relationships for that matter! I want to talk about your desire to have more. We all want more. More love, more freedom, more fun! We honor you. We want that too. Everyone wants to feel free and happy, right?
Let me explain a few things to you that will surely get that DIVA you are working with on the right page about the relationship. She needs your love and I know you need her respect and both of you can have BOTH! Easy as pie!
The trick is simple. In this letter, I offer four ways for you to take your relationship to the next level.
I guess I’m talking to men today because of all the emails I get from men who say:
“Kenya K, I want my wife or lover to open up in the ways you have to your husband – but she won’t let me do anything like that. She would kill me if she knew I were writing you!”
I guess these men are talking about the open relationship piece. But there are a few things that must be in tact in a primary relationship before women will even consider doing anything outside the norm. Women are VERY conservative.
This is from the heart…
I have been asked by over 50 women to do this ~ Get into the bed with Steve Harvey. So I did it! I have had a wonderful time ~ thank you Stevie Baby! Steve is quite a lover! I am excited to report that after reading his book, I have decided to go through it chapter by chapter here on the blog.
I LOVE his latest piece on relationships - Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man. I feel it is perfect for women who need to understand what a man quintessentially IS. But of course, like any lover, Steve and I do not agree on everything. What is most important, however, is that we agree on the basics.
Let us begin with Chapters 1&2.
“A man’s love falls only into three categories. I call them ‘The Three P’s of Love – Profess, Provide, and Protect.’ A man many not go shopping with you to buy the new dress for your office party, but a real man will escort you to the party and hold your hand, and proudly introduce you all around the party as his lady (Profess); he may not cuddle you and sit by the bed holding your hand while you’re sick, but a real man who loves you will make sure the prescription is filled, heat up a can of soup, and make sure everybody is in position until you are better (provide); and he many not willingly change diapers, wash the dishes, or rub your feet after a hot bath, but a real man who loves you sure will walk through a mountain and on water before he’d let someone bring any hurt or harm to you (Protect). This you can believe”
~Steve Harvey
Beautifully written Stevie Baby. So, in summary, chapters one and two are about the differences between men and women. The ways that men love and the ways that women love are just completely different. We are a different species. Men are fire and air, women are water and earth. This, we must fully understand as we look into our relationships to find purpose. Steve and I agree here.
It is a joyful union of souls!
Read my review of Chapters One and Two!