Love is my inspiration……..
I look at everyone as my lovers, inspiring me day by day to become who I need to be. I see you and I see me in you. I learn from you as I learn about you.
Love is but the sweetest magic around us. Fulfills the Continue reading
Before I was JuJued in the ways of Progressive Love, one of my favorite radio prank shows was this thing called War of the Roses by this radio station in NY. I would attentively listen as a man or a woman would get a phone call from a fake rose Continue reading
When is it ok to say ” I LOVE YOU”?….. Not too soon or you’ll look needy, not too long or you’ll look disinterested. This is what we always ask ourselves when we relate to a new person.
Let me ask you this: Do you wait to say ” I Continue reading
Article By Lesley | Contributing Writer for JLA
Recently, Jujumama asked the question on Facebook: How would your sex life be different if there were no such thing as STD’s?
I had a great time thinking how fun the world would be without even the thought of STDs… What would Continue reading
Change Your Man – Available on Amazon
Stop pouting about your man’s bad attitude…
Stop complaining about attracting the ‘wrong guys’.
Life is not random. The man you find yourself involved with is no accident. You have a great deal to learn from that Continue reading
SO last night I was unbraiding my husband’s hair and he was just sitting there on the computer with the earphones listening to the latest in movie previews. I am not interested AT ALL in movies because they freak me out. I am a trance DIVA so I feel like I am IN the movie or that the movie is happening to ME! So I steer clear of movies. (I recall watching the matrix and then thinking that the special agents were going to come and get me! I know, crazy. But whatever).
Now mind you, my husband and I are like OOOBER busy, so I thought that by taking his hair out, we could spend some time talking to one another and to the kids. SO I dreamed up this huge fairy tale in my mind about me taking his braids out as he reads books to the kids who hardly ever see us with our travel and work schedules.
NOT!
As the reality unfolded I realized that my husband did not have concept or clue about my wishes and desires. And so when I asked him to read the kids a story as I did his hair, he said, flat out, and blatantly NO. WHAT? NO? Well why the hell not? I was about to have a fit when I recalled what was happening – again – and decided to become awake in the moment!
Now I was really mad – HELL YES! But did I have to follow the anger emotion and let it wreck havoc in my relationship? HELL NO. Did I have to disrespect him in front of the children and question him, or badger him until he complied? Well, not this time….
Here are the three steps to resolving the incessant need to have it YOOUUUURRRR WWAAAYYYYY!
Dear Wonderful Men,
I am writing on behalf of all women (I hope). This letter is especially oriented for men in relationships with women, long term relationships, marriages and short term relationships for that matter! I want to talk about your desire to have more. We all want more. More love, more freedom, more fun! We honor you. We want that too. Everyone wants to feel free and happy, right?
Let me explain a few things to you that will surely get that DIVA you are working with on the right page about the relationship. She needs your love and I know you need her respect and both of you can have BOTH! Easy as pie!
The trick is simple. In this letter, I offer four ways for you to take your relationship to the next level.
I guess I’m talking to men today because of all the emails I get from men who say:
“Kenya K, I want my wife or lover to open up in the ways you have to your husband – but she won’t let me do anything like that. She would kill me if she knew I were writing you!”
I guess these men are talking about the open relationship piece. But there are a few things that must be in tact in a primary relationship before women will even consider doing anything outside the norm. Women are VERY conservative.
This is from the heart…
