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I am not a swinger. From what I understand, swinging is the idea of having outside sexual affairs along with your partner. Swinging usually happens at parties or lavish affairs where people get together, get naked and have some fun! Usually the husband or wife involved is able to stop any behavior that makes them feel uncomfortable, or even watch as their partner makes love to another.
The idea of swinging is to keep emotions out of sex, and this is where I part ways with the philosophy. In my humble view, making love is just that – making love. Love and sex were never meant to be separated. However, in our cultural framework we’ve separated these concepts and attempted to live lives where the two are seen as seperate.
