
It’s so hard when I have to, and so easy when I want to. ~Annie Gottlier
This is the secret key to love…
Ladies, I have heard some women complaining that their man is not willing to give up enough of the good stuff. I even speak with women in their 20′s and 30′s stating that their boyfriends are unable to perform at various moments in time.
OK?
Well please note – there is an easy cure for this. I spoke about it in detail in my article on Viagra. However, here is the short version. If you want your man to be hard, you have to be soft.
It is really just that simple. You cannot run about all day bossing him around, complaining, being tough, independent, irritated and even hurtful with your words or actions and then expect for him to make love with you, or WANT to make love with you. Sure, you can expect him to do so, but if he is holding on to inner rage about your arrogant and disrespectful behavior, he will not be able to perform. Over time this looks like erectile dysfunction, but guess what? He only has it with you! LOL! So it ain’t real!
Girl, I have been there and done that in my years of monogamy (I’ve been married since I was HOT and 21!!!).
It is not fun, and it is hard to accept that the cause of his “issue” may be some behavior on your part. But once you take ownership for your entire life, including the way that others treat you, you will become empowered to change anything about any relationship with a mild shift in your own behaviors! Sound too hard? Well try living with an erectile dysfunctional man for a few more years and then come back to this post and try following this advise.
I think you will then kiss me!
Try this trick to get some good stuff this weekend:
